Love it … Love it all


Everyone grows up with their own beliefs and their own perceptions of what a true love really is. You will have all types of influences, including relationships you see your families and friends involved in, movies, TV shows, and other places as well. There are so many different things that you see, and so many unsuccessful relationships in this world nowadays that many of you are lost when it comes to making a successful and lasting relationship with someone that you really love.

If you are really going to love someone you have to be willing to love with no conditions, and love even when a person is at their worst. Loving someone when it doesn’t seem as though they really deserve it is an attribute that you have to search high and low to find in these days. Not everyone will hold you at your weakest, and not all hearts will love you at your worst, but when you find someone that will be sure to hold on dearly to a soul this special!

It’s not hard loving someone at their best, when they are being good to you, when that person asks you how your day was and how you’re feeling because it matters to them, when this person pecks you on the cheek and makes you the subject of their desires because it makes you feel wanted and adored. You revel in the fact that there is someone out there who is more than willing to trudge through mud, climb every mountain, and cross every ocean for you — metaphorically-speaking, of course, In short, it’s not hard at all that we love that person because they make you feel ridiculously good.

Love is beyond all of that, it’s is loving them at their worst, even with their worst faults and flaws, forgiving and Forgetting their wrong doings, enduring and being kind, always trusting and not easily angered, always trusting and hoping and never failing.

To see them during their bad days, when nothing seems to be going right for them and it puts them in a terrible mood which you must suffer for. you want to see them in all their insecurities; those qualities that they endlessly drone on about in their conversations and what they ask you about, hoping for a denial of said insecurity.

But what you really want to do is to see them at their worst; that extremity where they are at the lowest of the low, where other people would not exactly stick around to see them in that state. It may only be a moment or it may last for a significant amount of time but what all you want is for you to be there.

No, you will not be repulsed by them nor shun them.

In fact, you want to look into their eyes and gaze upon their imperfections and insecurities and realize that you have never seen such beauty in something so imperfect and tell them that everything is going to be okay. You want to be the one to pick them up and carry them through the flames of their trials and tribulations because you want to, unbound by your convictions or principles. You want to forget about how those flames will raze you with their blazing tongues and keep in mind that you are shielding them and you will take comfort and strength in that because they are all that matters to you.

Maybe love is about losing yourself in someone else and having no regard for your well-being because simply seeing that person smile and be happy makes you want to be the reason for it, no matter what the cost.

To see the best of them, and the worst of the, and still choose both.

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