How to find yourself in your busy day

When you become a mother, you gain another part of your soul, but you can also lose a part of yourself as an individual.

Because I have unconditional love for my daughter, I often put her before myself, sometimes even before my basic needs. Does this sound familiar to any of you? I often get so busy with the daily routine of getting my 2 years old breakfast and ready for the day, I realize I haven’t eaten anything until it’s already time for lunch.

Over the course of these 2 years since Mira was born, I have found ways to get my “me time” in and I’m sure when we have more children I will have to be more creative.

Here are my tips to take time for yourself in your busy day. Some of them may be silly, but they really work!

  1. Wake up before or stay up later than your children. I think alone time is crucial, even if it’s just twenty minutes. You need time to yourself and if your children don’t go to school yet, this may be the only time you have alone. And since I’m not a morning person, I just enjoy staying up a little after everyone is asleep.
  2. Take longer in the bathroom. Now this might sound silly for some of you, but whether you are taking a shower or “going potty”, take extra time reading a magazine or putting on lotion.
  3. Exercise. I am really bad about exercising, but I know that it can put you in a better mood and is vital for your health. Try doing spurts of exercise throughout the day to boost your mood.
  4. Get a Hobby. If you don’t already have one, find something that makes you happy and is fun for you. I recently started couponing and it has almost become like a fun game to see what kind of deals I can get. Besides saving some money of course.
  5. Buy something for yourself. I don’t know about you, but I haven’t stepped foot in a mall to go shopping for myself in years. For some reason my mood is boosted even when I buy something for myself even as simple as a candle. (Maybe that’s why they call it retail therapy).

What are your tips and tricks for taking time for yourself in your busy day? How do you stay sane?

4 Responses to “How to find yourself in your busy day”

  1. haitham Says:

    سنة الحياة.
    الأم -خصوصاً- تعطي بلا حدود

    تتوقف أجزاء كثيرة من حياتها ل”احتمالية” أن يسير جزء من حياة ابنها/ابنتها

    الله يخليلك إياها :)

    أنا أب “جديد” مجددا ً و ما أعمله لا يقارن بالمجهودات التي تقوم بها آلاء، زوجتي

    لا يجب إهمال النفس و لكن سلم الأوليات منحاز تماما ً نحو الطفل بكل تأكيد :)

  2. Chikapappi Says:

    :,( ido stay up late catching up on the net bas I crave for a bubble bath or a good long walk like before

  3. Qwaider قويدر Says:

    I say, play more Kinict! :)

  4. hala Says:

    Great post – it’s often really hard to find time for yourself when you have little ones around, and I definitely can relate! With two little boys I sometimes feel like my day (and even my body) is not mine anymore.

    The one thing that has the most impact for me is taking time for myself to exercise. The combination of doing it all by myself, for myself, and the stress relief that it provides makes me a much better mom when I come back!

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