He is just NOT that into YOU!!!
Because if he likes you, trust me, he will call you!!!!
I’m not an expert in relationships, but tell me ladies, why would you think men could be incapable of something as simple as picking up the phone and calling you? You seem to think at times that they are “too shy” or they “just got out of something.” Let me remind you: Men find it very satisfying to get what they want. (Particularly after a difficult day of running the world.) If he wants you, he will find you. If you don’t think you gave him enough time to notice you, take the time it took you to notice him and divide it by HALF.
Such defenses serve a positive and a negative function, they can keep you from being overwhelmed by negative emotions, but if you are always in denial and your head is in the sand, that’s not useful either because it keeps you holding onto a relationship where there is none!!!
For years, women have made excuses for their men hoping to justify or rationalize their bad relationships. But listen to this; if you’re spending a lot of time making excuses for your man or thinking about your man, or obsessing, it’s very likely that he’s just not that into you.
Hearing the words ‘He’s not that into you” are painful because it’s like ‘what’s wrong with me? But,it’s not always that simple, sometimes there is something going on that is not about you.
men are not complicated and there are no mixed messages. If he doesn’t ask you out, call you, doasn’t know what he wants from you, never talks about the furure with you, then he’s just not that into you.
Simple advice to live life happily… avoid men who:
- Keep you waiting by the phone
- Are not sure they want a relationship
- Fear talking about the future
- Are married of course :)
Good luck ladies, and I’m sorry for some of those who just found out the harsh truth about their relationships.
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