Comments on: A matter of time before it breaks http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/ Dance like no one is watching, blog like no one is reading Tue, 01 Dec 2009 17:37:10 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Oriental Arabesque http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/comment-page-1/#comment-2310 Oriental Arabesque Sun, 21 Oct 2007 08:14:04 +0000 http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/#comment-2310 typical! isn't it?!! generally speaking some ppl are not willing to fight and work hard to keep the ones they love or care about the most...they just expect things to work by themself without much effort..they're simply not that determined.. i know many ppl like that...the want the other part to do all the compromise and settle for what suits them better...forgetting that determination is a 2 way street.. typical! isn’t it?!!

generally speaking some ppl are not willing to fight and work hard to keep the ones they love or care about the most…they just expect things to work by themself without much effort..they’re simply not that determined..
i know many ppl like that…the want the other part to do all the compromise and settle for what suits them better…forgetting that determination is a 2 way street..

]]> By: tiger http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/comment-page-1/#comment-2311 tiger Sat, 20 Oct 2007 09:06:51 +0000 http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/#comment-2311 nice story reminded me of someone I know!! nice story reminded me of someone I know!!

]]> By: Ola http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/comment-page-1/#comment-2307 Ola Fri, 19 Oct 2007 21:12:22 +0000 http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/#comment-2307 You know what the problem is? Soem peopel think that marriage is a lofty dream, a fairy tale,and that love will be alive forever. But, it'snot liek this... when you live with each other, you know everything about each other, the good, the bad and the ugly. in order to stay alive and not fade away, Love should be nurtured all the way... You know what the problem is? Soem peopel think that marriage is a lofty dream, a fairy tale,and that love will be alive forever. But, it’snot liek this… when you live with each other, you know everything about each other, the good, the bad and the ugly. in order to stay alive and not fade away, Love should be nurtured all the way…

]]> By: Maioush http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/comment-page-1/#comment-2306 Maioush Fri, 19 Oct 2007 19:52:42 +0000 http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/#comment-2306 Asoom: It’s a little complicated, I don’t know really. Jumana: Well, trying doesn’t always work, you get to a point where you just give up, and I guess that’s what happened. Secratea: I wish the ring was the answer, it’s almost impossible for him to offer her a ring now, there are so many he should do in able to do that, I totally understand your point, and I wish it was the solution for this situation, but unfortunately not! Qwaider: True, it’s the hardest thing anybody can do, although quitting is also hard, but I also know that it’s for the best, and if they meant to be together they will no matter what.. Asoom:
It’s a little complicated, I don’t know really.

Jumana:
Well, trying doesn’t always work, you get to a point where you just give up, and I guess that’s what happened.

Secratea:
I wish the ring was the answer, it’s almost impossible for him to offer her a ring now, there are so many he should do in able to do that, I totally understand your point, and I wish it was the solution for this situation, but unfortunately not!

Qwaider:
True, it’s the hardest thing anybody can do, although quitting is also hard, but I also know that it’s for the best, and if they meant to be together they will no matter what..

]]> By: Qwaider قويدر http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/comment-page-1/#comment-2305 Qwaider قويدر Fri, 19 Oct 2007 16:02:58 +0000 http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/#comment-2305 Long distance relation-crap! It sucks! It's hard! It'll usually fails! It requires a tremendous amount of sacrifice to make it work! Something most young men who are barely graduating school and don't have enough resources can't do! Sooner is better than later! Long distance relation-crap! It sucks! It’s hard! It’ll usually fails!
It requires a tremendous amount of sacrifice to make it work! Something most young men who are barely graduating school and don’t have enough resources can’t do!

Sooner is better than later!

]]> By: secratea http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/comment-page-1/#comment-2304 secratea Fri, 19 Oct 2007 14:51:54 +0000 http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/#comment-2304 Maioush, that letter is so dark.. dark determinism?. Why on earth does he think that nothing can bring them back, and that the relationship is breaking up, while they love each other and still hold on to a bond? One would think, yeah any relationship is destined to end, if one is not working hard on maintaining it, but in your brothers letter, it seems that the two (I don't want to say it is him because he isn't using the first person) he is writing about still love each other, and that is what bothers me. Isn't this the guy's voice? Aren't they the ones who have the power of maintaining the relationship (if the two love each other), why doesn't he?? It is not about the girl here, it is all about him. Why doesn't he go ahead and ask for her hand in marriage if he is really afraid of losing her? isn't it that in all relationships the girl is the one who waits on the marriage offer? seriously. It annoys me so much how males are the ones who have the power to solidify the relationship (especially when the girl is holding on to him), yet act powerless. He wants her, why not offer the ring?? Maioush, that letter is so dark.. dark determinism?. Why on earth does he think that nothing can bring them back, and that the relationship is breaking up, while they love each other and still hold on to a bond?
One would think, yeah any relationship is destined to end, if one is not working hard on maintaining it, but in your brothers letter, it seems that the two (I don’t want to say it is him because he isn’t using the first person) he is writing about still love each other, and that is what bothers me. Isn’t this the guy’s voice? Aren’t they the ones who have the power of maintaining the relationship (if the two love each other), why doesn’t he??
It is not about the girl here, it is all about him. Why doesn’t he go ahead and ask for her hand in marriage if he is really afraid of losing her? isn’t it that in all relationships the girl is the one who waits on the marriage offer? seriously. It annoys me so much how males are the ones who have the power to solidify the relationship (especially when the girl is holding on to him), yet act powerless.
He wants her, why not offer the ring??

]]> By: Jumana http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/comment-page-1/#comment-2309 Jumana Fri, 19 Oct 2007 11:30:55 +0000 http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/#comment-2309 he didn't decide to leave...he wants her to decide..and that means love. I think she should stay and try to work things out. he didn’t decide to leave…he wants her to decide..and that means love. I think she should stay and try to work things out.

]]> By: asoom http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/comment-page-1/#comment-2308 asoom Fri, 19 Oct 2007 07:34:32 +0000 http://maioush.com/2007/10/18/a-matter-of-time-before-it-breaks/#comment-2308 so what was her response? Did she make a decision? so what was her response? Did she make a decision?

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